My Online Job

Been away from my haven for a while, I need to unwind to kill off some stressors that keeps on bugging me. Just like anyone else, I started my work in an office as a secretary. Though I was trained by my aunt who's a blogger on how to write articles, I didn't push it through, but then for some reasons, I started to write articles for a friend who's also a blogger and he pays me 65php for a 500-word article. While working in an office, this has been my part time job. I could earned almost 3,000php in 2 weeks time. Not a bad thing, right? As we all know, the minimum wage here in our country cannot cover all the necessary bills as well as basic necessities we need in order to satisfy our needs. So some of us needs to have an extra income.

Being an article writer takes time and patience to improve the way a writer writes his articles. It was not easy to make articles and submit it on time, and by the end of the day, it will be returned to you for some errors that needs to be corrected. I encountered that one and how it keeps me drained since writing needs to have a lot of brain neurons working. So I finally stop doing it when I was pregnant and just depend everything to my boyfriend. But then I came across Odesk and registered. I have seen a lot of working opportunities that fits my qualification, I bid and bid and bid but no one dared to hire me. I don't know why. hahaha. So I was browsing a local internet site for some homebased jobs and submitted resumes, massive submission of resume. Someone texted me if I could work on as a Website Product Manager, I was thinking of, "What are the tasks? Can I do it?" I was automatically hired as Website Product Manager, no interviews since its an urgent hiring, I was trained via Skype chat, no video calls even video tutorials, it was really hard for me but the technique was I read every details in the instructions provided, tried how it works then Yatta! I understood how it works :)

And now, I am working for this American Company for a year now as a Website Product Manager, I was lucky to have one of the nicest American employer in town who always taught me things every now and then about my tasks. He was so nice that I always thank God for giving me such a good person to work with. Being an employee who works at home, virtually takes a lot of patience as well as strategies on how to make your life lively and your work full of joy while staying at home but I can say, this made me survived for the entire year without depending on my parents or even my husband. I have my own income while taking good care of my 9-month old baby. Because I am blessed to be in this kind of industry, on my next blog I will share on how to enter the online industry and how to succeed.

Incomes from the Internet World

As the world revolves, the internet goes with it. There are a lot of new stuffs to check out on the world wide web. Most people including me, tries out online jobs. I am working for a foreign employer for almost a year now, it was never easy to start with but if you are filled with patience and determination, you can certainly end up having a job. Some might also try doing clicking ads or links to get paid even for a single cents, who knows you might end up having thousands :)

I tried a lot, but some didn't worked. That's another thing to keep in mind, there are a lot of scammed sites that will never pay your hard work. Make sure before you start doing the task, you know for sure that it is legit. Another one I tried which never ceases to amaze me is the Weegy one, you just answer the questions, you can search it over google or yahoo, and you are getting paid for it. Wanna give it a try? Click below and start earning :)

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Christmas Season!

Oh, it's been awhile since I last checked on my blog. Been a tough week for me though, need to catch up with my tasks, need to work harder to triple my income in order to save some for the holiday season! I think it is roughly 119 days left before Christmas! Yey! Excited!

I can see that there are a lot of people who wants to save some for Christmas, for some it is intended for their families's gifts, for some just to have a merrier Christmas. Honestly, a lot of people have a wrong perception about Christmas, they think it is all about foods, gifts and family gatherings. But wait, have we thought of what Christmas is all about? It is all about giving, sharing, and of course family bonding. Christmas is the time we celebrate for Jesus. But we more think of Santa Claus. I am not saying that Santa Claus must be forgotten, what we need to realize is that, we must think of what the celebration is all about.

I am amazed how Christmas season changes us, we are generous when Christmas time comes, we do share, give gifts, treat people nicely. How I wish, Christmas is everyday so that everyday is as happier as December.

Married Life

Being married has never been easy. It is indeed another chapter in your book of life. You need to deal with it, not to leave it behind. Personally, I am against with divorce and annulment. I believe that somehow, you are not supposed to marry someone you are not certain enough that you will be happy being with that person for the rest of your life, 24/7.

I am recently married to my long-time boyfriend. There are some people asking us if we decided to get married because we have a kid. I said no, and for the nth time, its always a NO. We are not that stupid to tie the knot because we have a kid. We also know that these days, having a kid even if the parents are not married does not mean you need to get married as soon as possible. I know it is not yet accepted by everyone, but its our relationship, not theirs so why bother yourself on what might other people say?

Moving on, I can say it is not easy dealing with this one. As what most people say, this is the only time you are able to sleep with your enemy. But for me? Your spouse must not be your enemy, you are married with a purpose, live with it. Me and my husband have tons of differences but we need to deal with it, talk about it, fix it. That is how a married couple should be, in that case, there might be lesser cases of annulment and divorce. It is not just about papers, its all about how you handle your relationship with your partner.

Love Counselor

I remembered I said this to myself, "I would love to give advises to people especially if it is about love." I'm not really good at it though, but someone told me that every time I listened to their problems and in return share my thoughts and opinions, they can say that I actually experienced it by myself.  Yes, been there done that. Been stupid because of love, did stupid things, gave up everything for the one I love, actually I did it. I actually made myself looked stupid in public because of one person.

Let me share this to you. I once had a relationship with a cute guy, he has a japanese blood running through his body, he's loyal, he loves me. But he loves me as a friend, he told me that a year after we broke up and he left to go to Japan to be with his family. Before we met,  I had numerous relationships which eventually labelled as failed ones. He, then became my friend and eventually, he courted me. I'm his first girlfriend but not his first love though :) Before we broke up, I just learned from our common friend that we are already done with our relationship, I gave up that's what he said to his friends. But the truth is, he needed the space because he will leave me for an indefinite time. I accepted it, I confronted him and he told me the truth. He left without even talking to me. I faced everyday with sadness and loneliness. I was thinking that maybe, I am not destined to be happy in love. But now, I found my true love. He, who once been my boyfriend, is just a friend now. I just realized its not love, I just needed someone that time to vent out my loneliness of being alone and he was there. That is the reason why I am already happy right now and I know he's already happy for me too.

So I can say, love can be the reason people will have the most unbearable pain but what you need to put in your mind is that "GOD takes away the wrong person to give way for the right one to come along" because you will never appreciate the new one if you keep on looking back to the old love.

Well, I may not be the most expert in love but if you have problems or needed someone to hear you out. I am here. :)

Changes :)

There are some days when dealing with life is the hardest. When laziness strikes, all we want to do is to lay down in bed and do nothing, even if my stomach's shouting begging for food, we opt to lay down and try to sleep. I guess, we need to deal with it at times. We need to adjust and do some changes, we are all grownups. We cannot expect our parents especially our mom to serve us as if we are still infant or toddler. We need to deal with so many changes. :)

I have been a party girl before when I started college. I go out a lot with friends, tend to break my parent's rules to go home before 12 midnight, it was not a big deal for me anyway. They reprimand me, I go to bed, wake up and go to school, it becomes a routine. But when I reached fourth year college and met my long time boyfriend once again, whoa! I became the most behave girl. Go home early right after class, no late-night hangouts, no bar hopping. A drastic overhaul, you know :) But its a good thing, right? Oh changes!

And now, I already have a baby girl, recently married. Another overhaul in my life, but did I regret it? Did I blame anyone for this? I can say, I cant blame myself nor anyone, nor did I regret it. Simply because, changes make us better, not bitter. A good overhaul in life is better than to be stuck around the same ground.

A Mother's love

As I was about to sleep last night, I was checking my daughter. She's been dealing with on and off fever for several days now. I just realized, I can actually embrace the pain even the most excruciating one for my daughter. I can't stand seeing her suffering from pain and fever. I know its another chapter of his infant years that she needs to experience but I wish I can be as strong as I was while giving birth.

I guess that's how magical being a mother is. You tend to forget your own just to make sure your kid is alright and doing great. Its okay for you not to eat as long as your daughter is already satisfied with her meals. I guess I've changed. I am a better person now, thanks to my daughter. I know for sure, no matter what happens in the future, my steadfast love for my daughter will never change for the worst, but for the best.