Being married has never been easy. It is indeed another chapter in your book of life. You need to deal with it, not to leave it behind. Personally, I am against with divorce and annulment. I believe that somehow, you are not supposed to marry someone you are not certain enough that you will be happy being with that person for the rest of your life, 24/7.
I am recently married to my long-time boyfriend. There are some people asking us if we decided to get married because we have a kid. I said no, and for the nth time, its always a NO. We are not that stupid to tie the knot because we have a kid. We also know that these days, having a kid even if the parents are not married does not mean you need to get married as soon as possible. I know it is not yet accepted by everyone, but its our relationship, not theirs so why bother yourself on what might other people say?
Moving on, I can say it is not easy dealing with this one. As what most people say, this is the only time you are able to sleep with your enemy. But for me? Your spouse must not be your enemy, you are married with a purpose, live with it. Me and my husband have tons of differences but we need to deal with it, talk about it, fix it. That is how a married couple should be, in that case, there might be lesser cases of annulment and divorce. It is not just about papers, its all about how you handle your relationship with your partner.
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