Love Counselor

I remembered I said this to myself, "I would love to give advises to people especially if it is about love." I'm not really good at it though, but someone told me that every time I listened to their problems and in return share my thoughts and opinions, they can say that I actually experienced it by myself.  Yes, been there done that. Been stupid because of love, did stupid things, gave up everything for the one I love, actually I did it. I actually made myself looked stupid in public because of one person.

Let me share this to you. I once had a relationship with a cute guy, he has a japanese blood running through his body, he's loyal, he loves me. But he loves me as a friend, he told me that a year after we broke up and he left to go to Japan to be with his family. Before we met,  I had numerous relationships which eventually labelled as failed ones. He, then became my friend and eventually, he courted me. I'm his first girlfriend but not his first love though :) Before we broke up, I just learned from our common friend that we are already done with our relationship, I gave up that's what he said to his friends. But the truth is, he needed the space because he will leave me for an indefinite time. I accepted it, I confronted him and he told me the truth. He left without even talking to me. I faced everyday with sadness and loneliness. I was thinking that maybe, I am not destined to be happy in love. But now, I found my true love. He, who once been my boyfriend, is just a friend now. I just realized its not love, I just needed someone that time to vent out my loneliness of being alone and he was there. That is the reason why I am already happy right now and I know he's already happy for me too.

So I can say, love can be the reason people will have the most unbearable pain but what you need to put in your mind is that "GOD takes away the wrong person to give way for the right one to come along" because you will never appreciate the new one if you keep on looking back to the old love.

Well, I may not be the most expert in love but if you have problems or needed someone to hear you out. I am here. :)