Oh, it's been awhile since I last checked on my blog. Been a tough week for me though, need to catch up with my tasks, need to work harder to triple my income in order to save some for the holiday season! I think it is roughly 119 days left before Christmas! Yey! Excited!
I can see that there are a lot of people who wants to save some for Christmas, for some it is intended for their families's gifts, for some just to have a merrier Christmas. Honestly, a lot of people have a wrong perception about Christmas, they think it is all about foods, gifts and family gatherings. But wait, have we thought of what Christmas is all about? It is all about giving, sharing, and of course family bonding. Christmas is the time we celebrate for Jesus. But we more think of Santa Claus. I am not saying that Santa Claus must be forgotten, what we need to realize is that, we must think of what the celebration is all about.
I am amazed how Christmas season changes us, we are generous when Christmas time comes, we do share, give gifts, treat people nicely. How I wish, Christmas is everyday so that everyday is as happier as December.
Martes, Agosto 28, 2012
Linggo, Agosto 19, 2012
Married Life
Being married has never been easy. It is indeed another chapter in your book of life. You need to deal with it, not to leave it behind. Personally, I am against with divorce and annulment. I believe that somehow, you are not supposed to marry someone you are not certain enough that you will be happy being with that person for the rest of your life, 24/7.
I am recently married to my long-time boyfriend. There are some people asking us if we decided to get married because we have a kid. I said no, and for the nth time, its always a NO. We are not that stupid to tie the knot because we have a kid. We also know that these days, having a kid even if the parents are not married does not mean you need to get married as soon as possible. I know it is not yet accepted by everyone, but its our relationship, not theirs so why bother yourself on what might other people say?
Moving on, I can say it is not easy dealing with this one. As what most people say, this is the only time you are able to sleep with your enemy. But for me? Your spouse must not be your enemy, you are married with a purpose, live with it. Me and my husband have tons of differences but we need to deal with it, talk about it, fix it. That is how a married couple should be, in that case, there might be lesser cases of annulment and divorce. It is not just about papers, its all about how you handle your relationship with your partner.
Huwebes, Agosto 16, 2012
Love Counselor
I remembered I said this to myself, "I would love to give advises to people especially if it is about love." I'm not really good at it though, but someone told me that every time I listened to their problems and in return share my thoughts and opinions, they can say that I actually experienced it by myself. Yes, been there done that. Been stupid because of love, did stupid things, gave up everything for the one I love, actually I did it. I actually made myself looked stupid in public because of one person.
Let me share this to you. I once had a relationship with a cute guy, he has a japanese blood running through his body, he's loyal, he loves me. But he loves me as a friend, he told me that a year after we broke up and he left to go to Japan to be with his family. Before we met, I had numerous relationships which eventually labelled as failed ones. He, then became my friend and eventually, he courted me. I'm his first girlfriend but not his first love though :) Before we broke up, I just learned from our common friend that we are already done with our relationship, I gave up that's what he said to his friends. But the truth is, he needed the space because he will leave me for an indefinite time. I accepted it, I confronted him and he told me the truth. He left without even talking to me. I faced everyday with sadness and loneliness. I was thinking that maybe, I am not destined to be happy in love. But now, I found my true love. He, who once been my boyfriend, is just a friend now. I just realized its not love, I just needed someone that time to vent out my loneliness of being alone and he was there. That is the reason why I am already happy right now and I know he's already happy for me too.
So I can say, love can be the reason people will have the most unbearable pain but what you need to put in your mind is that "GOD takes away the wrong person to give way for the right one to come along" because you will never appreciate the new one if you keep on looking back to the old love.
Well, I may not be the most expert in love but if you have problems or needed someone to hear you out. I am here. :)
Let me share this to you. I once had a relationship with a cute guy, he has a japanese blood running through his body, he's loyal, he loves me. But he loves me as a friend, he told me that a year after we broke up and he left to go to Japan to be with his family. Before we met, I had numerous relationships which eventually labelled as failed ones. He, then became my friend and eventually, he courted me. I'm his first girlfriend but not his first love though :) Before we broke up, I just learned from our common friend that we are already done with our relationship, I gave up that's what he said to his friends. But the truth is, he needed the space because he will leave me for an indefinite time. I accepted it, I confronted him and he told me the truth. He left without even talking to me. I faced everyday with sadness and loneliness. I was thinking that maybe, I am not destined to be happy in love. But now, I found my true love. He, who once been my boyfriend, is just a friend now. I just realized its not love, I just needed someone that time to vent out my loneliness of being alone and he was there. That is the reason why I am already happy right now and I know he's already happy for me too.
So I can say, love can be the reason people will have the most unbearable pain but what you need to put in your mind is that "GOD takes away the wrong person to give way for the right one to come along" because you will never appreciate the new one if you keep on looking back to the old love.
Well, I may not be the most expert in love but if you have problems or needed someone to hear you out. I am here. :)
Linggo, Agosto 12, 2012
Changes :)
There are some days when dealing with life is the hardest. When laziness strikes, all we want to do is to lay down in bed and do nothing, even if my stomach's shouting begging for food, we opt to lay down and try to sleep. I guess, we need to deal with it at times. We need to adjust and do some changes, we are all grownups. We cannot expect our parents especially our mom to serve us as if we are still infant or toddler. We need to deal with so many changes. :)
I have been a party girl before when I started college. I go out a lot with friends, tend to break my parent's rules to go home before 12 midnight, it was not a big deal for me anyway. They reprimand me, I go to bed, wake up and go to school, it becomes a routine. But when I reached fourth year college and met my long time boyfriend once again, whoa! I became the most behave girl. Go home early right after class, no late-night hangouts, no bar hopping. A drastic overhaul, you know :) But its a good thing, right? Oh changes!
And now, I already have a baby girl, recently married. Another overhaul in my life, but did I regret it? Did I blame anyone for this? I can say, I cant blame myself nor anyone, nor did I regret it. Simply because, changes make us better, not bitter. A good overhaul in life is better than to be stuck around the same ground.
I have been a party girl before when I started college. I go out a lot with friends, tend to break my parent's rules to go home before 12 midnight, it was not a big deal for me anyway. They reprimand me, I go to bed, wake up and go to school, it becomes a routine. But when I reached fourth year college and met my long time boyfriend once again, whoa! I became the most behave girl. Go home early right after class, no late-night hangouts, no bar hopping. A drastic overhaul, you know :) But its a good thing, right? Oh changes!
And now, I already have a baby girl, recently married. Another overhaul in my life, but did I regret it? Did I blame anyone for this? I can say, I cant blame myself nor anyone, nor did I regret it. Simply because, changes make us better, not bitter. A good overhaul in life is better than to be stuck around the same ground.
Huwebes, Agosto 2, 2012
A Mother's love
As I was about to sleep last night, I was checking my daughter. She's been dealing with on and off fever for several days now. I just realized, I can actually embrace the pain even the most excruciating one for my daughter. I can't stand seeing her suffering from pain and fever. I know its another chapter of his infant years that she needs to experience but I wish I can be as strong as I was while giving birth.
I guess that's how magical being a mother is. You tend to forget your own just to make sure your kid is alright and doing great. Its okay for you not to eat as long as your daughter is already satisfied with her meals. I guess I've changed. I am a better person now, thanks to my daughter. I know for sure, no matter what happens in the future, my steadfast love for my daughter will never change for the worst, but for the best.
I guess that's how magical being a mother is. You tend to forget your own just to make sure your kid is alright and doing great. Its okay for you not to eat as long as your daughter is already satisfied with her meals. I guess I've changed. I am a better person now, thanks to my daughter. I know for sure, no matter what happens in the future, my steadfast love for my daughter will never change for the worst, but for the best.
I am strong
Last night, as I went to my bed to sleep. random thoughts suddenly
flashed on my mind. That day was a nightmare I dont want to remember, I
had lingered with hate and pain. Running from pain is my forte and i
guess yesterday i was caught off guard. I embraced the thorns of pain
while making myself more stronger and insensitive to the pain. I wish
the ground will just open and eat me. I want to run, I want to hide from
pain but I cant. Everywhere I go, this pain has been haunting me.
I looked up to heaven and asked Him; "Oh father, why do i need to experience this?I was so weak I couldnt even stand up and fight for myself, I cant do this anymore, i thought you were there for me and you love me so much as your princess, then why is this happening?" I looked down crying, then a gust of wind embraced me, GOD comforted me, oh how I wish I will always be with Him at His kingdom but the world still needs me, i must be tough and face it faithfully. I know, someday i would live a life pain and worry free. Maybe not now, but soon when the time is right.
I looked up to heaven and asked Him; "Oh father, why do i need to experience this?I was so weak I couldnt even stand up and fight for myself, I cant do this anymore, i thought you were there for me and you love me so much as your princess, then why is this happening?" I looked down crying, then a gust of wind embraced me, GOD comforted me, oh how I wish I will always be with Him at His kingdom but the world still needs me, i must be tough and face it faithfully. I know, someday i would live a life pain and worry free. Maybe not now, but soon when the time is right.
Everlasting Love
I am:
ANGEL
Happy.Cheerful.Jovial.Outgoing.Loving.Sweet.Thoughtful.Determined.Amiable.God-fearing.Short-tempered.Resourceful.Bossy.Lighthearted.Charming.Honest.
I love:
GOD
Jan Elicce Dimas
Family
Friends
I hate:
Backstabbers.Liar.Jealous heads.Bitter Ego Trippers.
And I am a Sagittarian Woman and my Better half is An Aries :)
Aries and Sagittarius make an ideal combination and the compatibility between the two zodiac signs is quite good. The relationship between the two will be full of enthusiasm, passion, zeal and adventure. Both of them will complement each other in almost every way and there will be a light playfulness in the love match. The energy levels of both, an Aries as well as a Sagittarian, are quite high and neither of them will be required to subdue his enthusiasm even a slightest bit. Sagittarius will never ever feel threatened by the aggressiveness of Aries and Aries will add to the strength of Sagittarius.
Both of them need their individual space and will let the other person have his freedom too. In this relationship, no one will rule the other. One person will help the other in fighting tough times and will never ever let the other feel too low about failures. They will always stand by each other, whatever be the situation. Money is something they will have to be careful about. This is because the combination of an Aries and a Sagittarian means the entire shopping mall at home! Together, they will travel to far off places and fulfill their adventure needs.
Aries Man and Sagittarius WomanThe love match of an Aries man with a Sagittarius woman is one of those matches that were truly made in heaven. He will keep her entertained with his intelligence, while she will mesmerize him with her creativity. Their conversations will be intellectually stimulating. Both share a love for adventure and will mostly be on move, exploring new people and new places. Sagittarian woman will love his funny sense of humor and Aries man will find her charm intriguing. Except for a few glitches here and there, they will hardly find a problem with each other.
We will be tying the knot soon and I am thankful enough that even though we need to have separate lives before, we know for sure that we had finally come to the last chapter of our lives which will be named "Happy Ending" :)
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